Should I stay or should I go? Should I buy or save? Should I forgive or forget? Should I move or not? The shoulds become a thirsty internal craving as we try to process the best outcome for our life.
The problem? In doing this, we often hold onto what no longer works.
Life is a balance of holding on and letting go. We strive to make the right choice but how do we know when it is truly time to let go and move on?
Romantic relationships, jobs, even places we live have an expiration date. Sometimes we hold on to things that aren’t working out of fear we won’t find something better.
How Do You Know When You Need to Move On?
How do you know? The truth is you just do. It is that simple. My guide advises that there is a reason for the feelings we have in our hearts, and when it is time for that to change, it just does. This means we don’t have to struggle. We don’t have to dive into another relationship, another job, another anything to make ourselves move on. When it is time to move on, we will just feel it and know it. The organic process of healing just happens.
Why Do You Still Think About Them?
If you still think about them, it doesn’t mean you’re crazy. You can stop asking that question. You are not crazy. Up in the higher realms, in the invisible world of love and energy, we are all connected. When we at California Psychics talk about a strong spiritual connection, this is what we mean. My guide is more exact and says this is about a level of recognition that we can see through our special other—that there are higher, greater levels of reality. We can reach and realize those levels when we are with them and that is what makes our experience with them so profound. Further, we have memories like lines of electrical current that light up every time we think about that special someone or when they think about us! This is what I am reading when people ask me about their special someone. I feel the lines of energy running, and I can do that because I am connected to you and you have let me see the higher realms through you!
My guide often advises many callers not to think of it as moving on, but rather as moving ahead. The problem is that when we are holding onto someone, we are not living in the present moment. All of our energy travels back to the past or in “what might have been” or to the future or “what will be.” That means we are not living in the present, and when we hold onto someone or something so hard, it is like a closed fist—nothing can get in and nothing can get out. In other words, nothing can change—and that includes things getting better. Learn to discipline your mind to focus on the day and take time to remind yourself what your dreams were before this person or situation entered your life. This will help you become more magnetic to happier experiences and alter your reality to produce more wanted results.
Be Gentle With Yourself
All of this is to say, be gentle with yourself. There are times when we let these connections overwhelm us, and we can come to know whether that is happening by how well we are taking care of our daily lives and our well-being. It is an amazing experience to meld together with another and our lives are a tapestry of these special moments, but getting locked into the past is like putting a “do not disturb” sign on the new, wonderful experiences that are happening to us. Remember, though, we should be kind to ourselves and just do a little bit better each day! Be well!