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Guide to Your Aura Colors

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Guide to Your Aura Colors

Your aura is important to your life and to the energy that you have. You need to notice what your aura looks like and what it helps with.

What Your Aura Looks Like

Here is a breakdown of what your aura looks like:

Left Side of the Body

This is the side of your aura that shows the energy that comes into your auric field. This is the way that your feminine energy comes in to this side of your body. This is the energy that you are asking to come to you.

As the energy comes into your aura, it is there so that you can figure out what you think of yourself and how you see yourself. This is the emotions that you have and part of your imagination.

From the Forehead and Up

This is the area of your aura that represents your conscious mind. This is energy that controls how you are feeling, your thoughts and your emotions. If the colors are close together then they are more intense, or you are thinking about them more. These colors might be colors that are in your aura now.

The colors that look like an arch in the top part of your forehead can mean that you hold something high. It can mean that you are working towards certain goals in your life.

Your aura will go out and it can show things like:

  • If you are an extrovert.
  • Your social activities.
  • What kind of connections do you want to make with others.
  • How you express yourself.

Auras that are closer together can mean:

  • You need to focus more.
  • You are sensitive.
  • There is a desire to be alone.
  • Meditating can bring you peace.
  • You need rest or peace.
  • There are boundaries that you need to set.

Right Side of the Body

This is the side of you that shows a masculine energy. This can show energy from the past that is just coming to your aura, and it is being released by the colors. This is external energy, and it can show you how others look at you and the memories and changes that you have in your life.

Here are some more things about the aura:

  • The throat is the place where you communicate and where you can be outspoken or quiet.
  • The heart is the part of your energy that comes from the heart, and this comes from feelings and emotions that you are having.

Colors of the Aura

Here are what aura colors mean and represent:

Red

This color can mean that you are connected with your body, and you are fearless. It shows that you know what you need and that you are able to manifest things into your life. This color can mean that you are passionate and that you will experience things that you want to do. Most of the time if you have this color, you aren’t afraid of things such as death, sex, birth, or other things. These people are powerful and fiery, and they love to have pleasure. If the color is dull or dark, it can mean that you are unforgiving and that you have some kind of trauma.

Pink

This color aura can mean that you are a gentle person and that you give love to people that come into contact with you. These are people that are sensitive and romantic, and they will do what it takes to have good relationships. They are healers and are very creative with strong intuition. The color pink is similar to how the color green reacts and this is a comfortable feeling and is part of the feminine energy. If you have a pink aura, you can heal people just by smiling at them or being there for them.

Magenta

Magenta people are those that have both blue and pink in their aura. They are people that are understanding and are able to use strong intuition. They are creative and have strong energy and they don’t copy what other people do. They experience things and are a bit over the edge but, they are positive. They think on their own and are not boring and they are normally happy, positive and have a great sense of humor. These people are normally free spirits.

Orange

Those that have an orange aura are people that are creative and are able to understand their emotions. They are people that will put a lot of care into friendships and will be full of joy and peace.

They are people that work hard, save money and they are able to work as a team while also being able to be sociable with people that they don’t work with. They are strong and they are able to meet people and never seem to meet a stranger. Those with this aura have a hard time being still and they want to experience life to the fullest.

Yellow

The yellow aura colors are part of the Solar Plexus chakra. They are smart, have strong self-esteem and they have strong vibrations. They have a strong sense of self, and they are able to be great leaders and to motivate others to do great things.

These are people that encourage others and that are able to figure out problems. Those with this color aura are normally happy, giving, radiant and attract people into their life.

If the yellow is darker, it can mean that the person is a perfectionist and that they worry more about their ego than other things.

Tan

The tan aura can be someone that is able to be logical and to figure things out. They will look at everything that they do and will be careful about the steps that they take. These are people that often keep their feelings to themselves, and they want to make sure things are good before they ever make a choice or take action.

These are people that pay attention to details, and they will make sure to complete their tasks. They love people that are fun to be around, and they want to be committed to people for a long time. These are people that understand different dimensions and they have a linear way of thinking about all things.

Green

The green aura is one that works with the heart chakra. This is a person that is able to heal others and is one that can have unconditional love for people that they meet. They are strong and they are people that are self-healers. These people will be balanced and peaceful and they will be able to rest easily.

They will create things and they will serve others and they have a bridge between the spiritual and physical world. They are creative and kind. If they have a murky green, it can mean that they are jealous of others and that they criticize people often.

Blue

A blue aura can mean that the person is able to communicate well. They are able to express what they are thinking, and they usually speak the truth. They are smart and they have a lot of inner knowledge. They will do what it takes to figure things out by talking about it.

They love to have information and to have knowledge and they will dream about being better and reaching all of their dreams and goals.

Indigo

This color aura is related to the third eye chakra. This is where intuition comes from. This person will be sensitive to what others are feeling and they are in tune with what is going on in their life.

The people that have this color aura are often sensitive and have strong empathy. They are more in tune with their feelings than with logical, but they are able to see things in a bigger picture. They can discern truth and they are able to communicate with others.

Purple

A purple aura has to do with the crown chakra. This is someone that is able to look at their mission and to find wholeness in their life. They are able to have inner strength and they love to see where their future goes.

This color means that the person has energy, intuition and can see situations for what they are but can help solve them. They are natural empaths, and they can raise peoples vibrations when they need it. This is a high vibration color, and it releases an energy field that lets them manifest things into their lives.

White

The white aura can be related to the soul chakra. This is a pure aura and can mean that the person isn’t limited to the physical realm. This is a rare color and not very many people have this aura color.

This is a person that has no problems, that has no health issues and someone that doesn’t face issues with their personal self or others. They are people that are spiritual in tune with who they are and the world around them. The don’t care about things that are worldly and they are kind, loving, uplifting and they don’t judge others.

Strange Aura Situations

Here are some aura anomalies that some people have:

Light

A person that has rays of light in their aura can mean that they are connected to the spiritual world. They are people that can channel into the spirits, and they have a strong crown chakra. They can get messages and they can give them and reach a different dimension.

Orbs

Orb energy can come into your aura, and it can mean that you are connected to the universe. It can mean that you have auras that appear in pictures, and they go near the body but mostly the upper auric field. These circles are there to help you be part of the universe.

Darker Colors or a See-Through Aura

When this happens, this probably means that you are tired or burnt out. It can mean that you need to have rest and that you are lacking in energies.

Breaking Free of Soul Vows

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Breaking Free of Soul Vows

Have you ever made a vow with yourself on how you wouldn’t do certain things? Most people don’t realize that these vows will go form one lifetime to another. Past life vows are things that can be very strong and powerful.

If you have had something happen in your life that causes you to be afraid or causes you pain, the experience might cause you to make a vow that you will never do that thing again. This could be a type of relationship that you were in, or it could be that you were killed for the beliefs that you had in your past life, or it could be that something happened with money, and you decided not to ever let it happen again.

When people experience something that causes them to have strong emotions, many will make vows that they won’t do that thing again and this can continue throughout their next lives.

Vows and Emotions

A past life vow can cause you to miss out on things that you have wanted to happen. If you said in your past life that you would never commit to someone in a relationship again, chances are that now you cannot get married.

Past life vows are often associated with strong emotions such as fear, anger, jealousy, hate, hurt, pain and more. You have to figure out if you have past life vows so that you can get rid of them and live your best life.

The best way to do this is to reach your Akashic Records and find out if you have created any of these vows. You can go into these records and get rid of any contracts that are holding you back from your present or future.

Do Past Life Vows Differ from Soul Agreements?

Past life vows are not the same as soul agreements. Soul agreements are happened when you need to learn a particular lesson in your life. A soul contract for example, might happen with your soulmate so that you can learn to be patient in the next life. You will experience these things over and over again until you get it right.

These contracts are for the good and they help you to change and to live a better life. A past life vow though is a negative reaction that you have when something is hurtful or scary.

Getting Rid of Past Life Contracts

If you have a past life contract and you want to know how to change it, you can do that. Akashic Records are there to help you get rid of these kinds of contracts. You can learn how to access these records on your own or you can see a psychic.

There are different things that you can do before you clear out your past life contracts. It is important to figure out first why you made these contracts and find out if you need to replace them with something new.

Final Thoughts

As you look at your Akashic Records, you can clear out past life vows, and you can change your past and future with these changes.

Going Through a Hard Awakening

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Hard Awakening

Your spiritual awakening is a time where you will find yourself. This is something that has been misunderstood by society. The thing about your awakening is that it isn’t about finding out what you can do or what you are, it is finding out who you are on the inside.

Finding your real self is something that will take your entire life and as you find your soul connection, you will be able to get rid of things that hold you back from reaching your higher self. Things such as addiction and other bad behaviors need to be let go and the ego needs to be put aside.

Finding Your True Self

Finding your true self is something that doesn’t cost money and you aren’t going to find who you are by partying or having fun. You will probably not find yourself in a church or in a classroom. These are things that you will do on your journey, but they will not help you to find who you are. This comes when you connect with your soul self, and you get rid of other things that aren’t valuable to your life.

Secret Awakening

There is no secret to reaching your awakening and it is an experience that will help you to realize what good things you have inside and what you need to change. When people depend on their ego and they judge others, they are not full of love and these things have to be let go before you will ever find out your real purpose. These things are not part of the real part of you and once you figure that out, you can find out who you really are.

Final Thoughts

Reaching your awakening is something that is not going to be easy, but it is going to be worth it in the end. As you release things in your life that don’t help you to reach your higher self, you will be one step closer to your spiritual awakening.

You have to get rid of the things in your life that don’t serve you well such as:

• Greed.
• Pride.
• Envy.
• Wrath.
• Lust.
• Gluttony.
• Sloth.

By getting rid of these things out of your life, you can reach your higher self and find the peace and joy that you need to live your best life.

What Spirit Animal Do You Have?

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Spirit Animal

People have spirit guides, and many people have animal spirit guides. These guides are there to give you support and to help you through life.

Each spirit animal helps to represent different things in life and each of them will bring messages that can help you to live better. Spirit animals can be birds, reptiles, mammals, fish and more. Some people have multiple spirit animals and some of them are their main spirit animals while others are secondary or just show up for small periods of time. Some will come when you are grieving or when you need help through a crisis.

Animal guides can give you a spiritual name if they choose to and it can represent something that might be inside of you. Here are some of the most known spirit animals:

Eagles

An eagle might show up when you are grieving over losing someone you love. If you are grieving and you aren’t feeling like you can heal, eagles are there to help. They can also be there if you are trying to make a life decision such as if you need to decide if you are moving or not.

You can ask your guides to give you a sign and if they send an animal to you, it might be your spirit animal. You might see the eagle flying high, this can be something unusual, depending on where you live.

If you see this animal over and over then it can be part of your soul group and your spirit animal. This might happen at a time where you need an answer the most.

Hawks

Hawks are another popular spirit animal. You might see one that is red tailed or one that you haven’t seen very often. You may see one sitting on your fence or in a tree in your yard. This animal will come in front of you, getting your attention, and can give you a warning sign that you are in some kind of danger.

Your spirit animal can even help you when you are driving and tell you when a cop is doing a speed check. If it appears somewhere out of nowhere, you need to pay attention to the sign that it is giving you. Even if you are driving and you are going the wrong way, your spirit animal might be trying to show you to turn around or show you that you missed a turn.

Owls

Owls are unusual animals to see, too. They have wingspans that can go up to 6 feet. Owls bring you strength and peace and they can help you to understand to look at things from different perspectives.

Your owl spirit animal is there to teach you to pay attention to who is around you and to keep your heart open. Make sure that you look at the different sides around you before you make any kind of decision.

Everyone has a spirit guide, and you might have a spirit animal as your guide. You may not have found out who your spirit animal is yet but pay attention to what the universe is trying to tell you.

Knowing Your Life Path Number

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Life Path Number

Your life path number is part of astrology and numerology. By knowing your life path number, you can know your personality and the traits that you have. Some believe that with this number, you can tell the future.

There are many people that don’t believe in numerology, and they don’t believe that numbers are even that important. There is no scientific evidence that says psychic gits are real, but this is a practice that is widely known today.

Life path numbers are part of this numerology, and they can help to tell the personality and truth about the person by using their date of birth.

Calculating the Life Path Number

To get your life path number, you take your birth date and add all the digits together. Then you keep adding them until you get a single number. For example, if your birthday is 07/04/1995 it would be 0+7+0+4+1+9+9+5=36, 3+6=9. 9 would be your life path number. This is easy to do, and it isn’t complicated once you get this in your head.

Of course, if you have 11 or 22, you don’t break those numbers down any further because those are called Master numbers and they have their own special meanings. You can also go to numerology.com to find out more information. Once you have your life path number, you can figure out what it means for you.

Life Path Numbers Understood

Here are some characteristics and traits of your life path number:

Number 1

Strengths:

• Leaders.
• Strong.
• Successful.
• Charming.
• Can argue.
• Interesting.

Challenges:

• Care too much.
• Domineering.
• Overprotective.
• Angry.

Number 2

Strengths:

• Kind.
• Caring.
• Empathetic.
• Creative.
• Skilled.

Challenges:

• Sensitive.
• Overly dependent.
• Don’t stand up for themselves.

Number 3

Strengths:

• Want attention.
• Easy to get attention.
• Achieve great things.
• Energetic.

Challenges:

• They start big but don’t finish things.
• Have a hard time focusing.
• Have a hard time committing.

Number 4

Strengths:

• Reliable.
• Great friends.
• Great co-workers.
• Work hard.

Challenges:

• They can be too much when it comes to rules.
• They follow their own guidelines.

Number 5

Strengths:

• Smart.
• Inquisitive.
• Great teachers.
• Great writers.
• Communicates well.
• Childlike.

Challenges:

• Spend too much.
• Have too many hobbies.
• Party a lot.
• Superficial.

Number 6

Strengths:

• Great activists.
• Will stand up for others.
• Makes a great lawyer or speaker.
• Great therapist.

Challenges:

• Aren’t consistent.
• Don’t take care of themselves well.

Number 7

Strengths:

• Creative.
• Strong imagination.
• Entertaining.

Challenges:

• Shy.
• Don’t connect with others well.
• Don’t relax well.
• Work too hard.

Number 8

Strengths:

• Good financially.
• Know the omnipresence.
• Self-sufficient.
• Comfortable.

Challenges:

• Care too much about money.
• Workaholics.
• Don’t take risks.

Number 9

Strengths:

• Deep ideas.
• Idealistic.
• Don’t compromise on their values.
• Have strong beliefs.
• Agreeable.
• Stylish.
• Kindness and giving.

Challenges:

• Have codependent personalities.
• Trouble enjoying the now.
• Focuses too much on the future.

Why Is He Always on Your Mind?

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Always on Your Mind

Do you have someone in your life that no matter what you do, you cannot stop thinking about them? This can be some guy that you have met recently or someone that you have known a long time.

There is a thing called a hero instinct and when a woman learns to trigger this in a man, it will cause him to have more affection towards her. This will often times cause the guy to give chase and to be after her. This is a psychological trigger that causes there to be deep feelings and gives the man a real purpose.

Do you have someone in your life that you wish had deeper feelings for you?  You need to make the hero instinct work for you.

Why He is Always on Your Mind

There are different reasons that a guy will be on your mind. This often happens after you have went through some kind of breakup. There are some people that you have just met though that you cannot get off of your mind. Here are some of the top reasons:

  • You Are in Love

The biggest reason you cannot stop thinking about someone is because you are in love with him. Your brain wants you to think about him because it makes you feel good and releases feel good chemicals.  This could be someone that you have just met or someone that you have been talking to for a while.

Your brain will constantly want you to think about this person because you want them, and you want to be with them. You might also love someone that you can’t have because they aren’t single. This is a hard thing to deal with because you can still have strong feelings for them even though you cannot be with them. No matter if you can do anything about who you think about, you need to try and get them out of your mind if they are someone you cannot be with.

You might love someone that is an ex, and you are no longer with them. This is something normal and it can take a while to get over someone that you are no longer with because of the hurt.

  • Using As a Distraction

Your mind sometimes will use things going on in your life as a distraction. Your mind might be using your love as a distraction especially if you are dealing with hard things in your family or even in your career. You might try not to think about this person constantly but find you can’t stop. Maybe you have questions about what kind of interaction you will have next or even how you will look or act when you get with them again. You may spend a lot of time living in a fantasy world with them in it. This happens when you need a distraction.

  • You Wonder How Things May Have Been Different

If you have recently broken up with a guy, you might wonder how things could have been different. Some people get stuck with ideas in their head about how they could have done something different or even remembering the breakup. Maybe you cannot stop thinking about them because you have a lot of feelings that you are harboring inside of you still. This can be confusing and if you are looking at the memories that you have had together, leaving the relationship can be more painful.

  • Feeling Sad or Lonely

When someone is sad or lonely you might not be able to stop thinking about this person. You might have just met them and you are interested or you might have been talking to this person for a long time.

If you are always thinking about them then you might be more obsessed with this person than you realize and it could be because you wish that you had a person to be with in your life. Chances are that you don’t even like this person but you just don’t want to be alone.

Thinking about your ex can cause you to feel more lonely because you have a broken heart. You might have a hard time adjusting to being single and this can sway your thoughts.

  • Met Someone New

Meeting someone new that is interesting in you can cause you to have them on your mind. You might be trying to understand them or figure out more about them. It can get to the point where you cannot stop thinking about them day in and day out.

  • How to Stop Thinking About a Man

Once you know why you are thinking about a certain person, you need to figure out how to stop doing this. You more than likely know that you are thinking about them too much and you have to figure out how to move forward and change your thought system:

  • Stop Trying to Stop Thinking About Him

This sounds like a funny thing to think about but when you are trying hard to stop thinking about someone then it can make you think of them more. Every time they come to your mind, don’t try to stop thinking about them instead just think about something else. Don’t get upset that you can’t get them off of your mind, just start thinking about positive things.

  • Don’t Give Him Your Time

Another thing that you can do is to stop giving him your time. If you have just broken up with this person, then you might need to block them out of your life. Start by blocking them on all of your social media and then make sure that you block his phone number. Don’t speak to him or hang out with him or go places you know he visits often.

If you have recently begin to date someone and you can’t get them off of your mind, you need to limit your time that you see them. Take a step back and pull out of the relationship for a little bit each week.

  • Do More in Life

Take time to live your best life. Find a hobby and find things that you love to do. Join a club that you wanted to join before or start a project on your home. Whatever you like to do, do it. If you just begin dating him, make sure that you aren’t giving up your own freedom to be with him.

If you have just went through a break up, you need to make sure that you keep yourself busy so that you aren’t sad or lonely.

  • Give Yourself Love and Care

Give yourself the same kind of love and care that you gave your man when you were together. Don’t stop loving yourself and focus on giving yourself more self-care than ever. Having self-love can help you to realize what you need and help you to take care of the things that you are lacking.

  • Stop Trying to Be Perfect

No one is perfect and we are always going to get distracted by things in our life. Take time to look at the things that you aren’t pleased with and strive to fix them but don’t expect to be perfect or fast. You will need to take time to fix things that are going on inside of you.

  • Forgive

Forgive those that have hurt you. If your man broke up with you and you are harboring negative feelings, forgive him and move forward. Forgiving can be hard but you will be better off if you learn to forgive him and to stop holding on to the pain. However you choose to forgive him is up to you but you need to do this in a way that is healthy. You can meet up with him and tell him that you forgive him, write him a letter or just forgive him and try and forget.

You also need to take time to forgive yourself or anyone else that was in the situation. You need to accept that everyone makes mistakes and forgive yourself as much as you forgive others.

  • Date Again

It is time to date again and to live a happy life. Don’t spend all of your time thinking about what could have been but think about what is now. Think about how you can live your best life while meeting new people. Before you move on, make sure that you are in the right place in your mind and your heart.

Get back into the dating scene so that you can see that you are attractive and so you can find someone you are interested in. Don’t feel held back because of your past but put yourself out there in life. If you are worried about dating again, just go slow and go out where other people are.

Final Thoughts

If you cannot stop thinking about someone, you need to figure out where these thoughts are coming from. Sometimes they will come from something positive but sometimes it will be something negative that is triggering the thoughts. Try and focus on positive things and keep your head up. You can have a happy life and enjoy the people that are around you in the present.

Balance the Third Eye Chakra

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Third Eye Chakra

There are seven main chakras in the body and they go from the base of the spine to the top of the head. The first five chakras can bring balance to your life and as you look at the chakras you will see that they are each represented with a color. They flow in red, green, blue, orange, and yellow.

The third eye chakra can be indigo or purpose and if it is purple then chances are that your crown chakra will be white in color. The thing about the third eye is that it is found between your eyebrows and it means “to receive or perceive something.”

What is the Third Eye?

The third eye is part of the pineal gland, and it is found in the brain, behind the eyes. This is a small, almost pea like body part that is made of the same things that are found in the eyes. This gland has been seen as important in different religions, often being seen as a place where the soul sits.

The third eye is meant to bring wisdom and understanding of what you are doing in your life, allowing you to have inner visions. This is part of your psychic gifts and the place where things like astral dreaming takes place and your ESP.

With this chakra, you can dream and get information from the spiritual world. As your third eye is balanced, you will see that you might have visions or that you will have clear thinking. It is a place that you can use your telepathy and other psychic gifts.

But, when the third eye is imbalanced, this can cause you to have problems with your eyes, headaches, sleeping problems and anxiety. People that have a balanced third eye have a hard time being around violent or negative situations.

The Imbalanced Third Eye

If your third eye is imbalanced, you might experience:

  • Being unable to concentrate.
  • Feeling obsessive.
  • Having bad dreams or nightmares.
  • Self-evaluating yourself too much.
  • Unable to focus.
  • Overly religious.
  • Overly analytical.
  • Delusional.

If your third eye is lacking, you might experience:

  • Having no visions.
  • Not being able to use your imaginations.
  • Bringing up repressed memories.
  • Not able to see good outcomes.
  • Unable to take responsibility.
  • Choosing to not learn from your mistakes.
  • Being afraid to succeed.
  • Not able to set goals.

When you see that you are experiencing these things then chances are that you might need to balance your third eye.

Balancing the Third Eye

There are different ways that you can make your third eye chakra strong and balanced such as:

Meditating

Meditation is one of the best ways to get your third eye opened and balanced. Meditating can help you and you can do this in your room, outside in the sun or even in the moonlight.

Take time to concentrate on how you are breathing and keep your eyes closed. Think of the color purple surrounding you and try to concentrate on your third eye chakra. Be patient.

Sleeping

It is important to get good sleep and rest when you want your chakras to be balanced. You should get around eight hours of sleep. Put your electronics away at least an hour before you go to bed so that you can get ready for good sleep.

Aromatherapy

You can use essential oils or other aromatherapy to help open up your third eye. Here are some of the best ones to use:

• Lavender.
• Frankincense.
• Juniper.
• Neroli.

Eating Healthy

Try to find foods that can open up your third eye chakra. Use foods that are purples like grapes, raisins, and eggplant.

Choose foods that work with the pineal gland and make sure that you aren’t eating too much sodium or too much fluoride. Eat foods that are rich in iodine such as almonds, spinach, sesame seeds and more.

Use organic chocolate and coffee to open up your third eye and other foods like grape juice, teas and wines can help. Omega 3 foods like eggs and nuts are great.

Herbs

Here are some herbs that can open up your third eye:

• Mugwort.
• Mint.
• Thyme.
• Dill.
• Juniper.
• Poppy Seed.

There are other foods that can help you such as carrots. You can even use herbs as a room spray and keep it close when your area feels full of negativity.

Positive Affirmations

Here are some great affirmations to say:

  • I know that my wisdom comes from inside of me.
  • I see things clearly.
  • I am objective.
  • I am open to my inner self.
  • The universe guides me.

Yoga

Yoga is a great thing that can help you to open up your third eye chakra. Try the downward facing dog and the plough poses. You can even do things such as walking, a headstand and more to keep your body and your chakras strong.

Signs He’s Probably Playing You

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Probably Playing You

Have you ever been on a date and then you felt like you were being played? Chances are this happens because you might not know what to look for. You can know if a guy is playing you by looking at red flags that he might be showing you.

Once you allow him to play you, he will keep doing things and you will never get the relationship that you want. This can happen to single men that want to make a man change because they want to be in a relationship with him. This is not real and once a man shows you that he isn’t on the same page as you for a relationship, you need to take that as your answer.

You need to always make a man treat you the way that you deserve and this means that you will put up boundaries. A man that wants to have a good relationship will do whatever it takes to win you over. They will be kind, loving and treat you good and on top of that, they will do what it takes to impress you.

If you are with a man that doesn’t do those things for you, then you need to let him go. There is a chances that if you don’t you will end up hurt and embarrassed.

Signs He is Playing You

Here are some signs that your date might be playing you:

He Says He Doesn’t Want in a Relationship

When you go out with someone, you are looking to see if they match you and if they have the qualities, you are looking for. If he goes out with you though and tells you he doesn’t want to be in a relationship then you need to decide right then to end it.

A guy that tells you he doesn’t want to be in a relationship isn’t lying to you and you need to accept it and move on.

Flirts But Doesn’t Ask You on a Date

A man that flirts with you but doesn’t ask you to go on a date is probably not really interested in you. There is probably something that is holding him back if he isn’t asking you out.

When He Says He Has Never Been in Love with Someone

When a guy has never been in love with someone then chances are that he hasn’t ever allowed himself to be vulnerable. You might think he just hasn’t met the right person but if he is over 40 and he hasn’t been in love then he doesn’t want to be in love.

Texts But Doesn’t See You

Men love to text sometimes, and they do this to keep women on a string. If he texts you often but he doesn’t take time to see you then chances are that he isn’t into you. He is probably trying to boost his ego and is probably texting multiple women.

Stop wasting your time on him even if you enjoy texting him. He probably isn’t into you.

Recently Divorced and Just Looking

This can be a red flag because if a guy isn’t dating to be serious then what does he really want? If he is just looking then chances are that he will want something that isn’t serious. You might think that he would be worth your time but by taking a chance on him you are chancing getting your heart broken.

Comes Over but Never Takes You Out

Does your new guy always want to come over and bring food but never wants to take you out? Even if this sounds fun, chances are that it could be that he just wants to have a booty call.

He will come over but never take you out because he might be dating someone else and not want them to see you out together.

Don’t continue having dates at your home until he takes you out into the public and responds to you in a serious way. Make him take time to pursue you and not the other way around.

You Set Times and Dates

When you call this guy and ask him if he wants to do something with you, chances are that he will say yes but he never takes the time to invite you out. He could be someone that is lazy or has no motivation or he could just do things with you because he is bored. Maybe he wants to be with someone that will do all the work.

If this guy doesn’t ask you out and take time to set times and dates, get rid of him and find you a new guy.

Grounding Ideas for Empaths

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Go Barefoot

Being an empath means that you are likely a highly sensitive person. As an empath, you need to make sure that you are grounded and balanced. If you want to keep growing, you have to make sure that you are strong in who you are.

Many empaths feel that they are restless and often will feel overwhelmed. They will feel like they have no one that they can count on and they depend a lot on themselves. There are different things that you can do to get yourself grounded so that you can live your best life.

Even though many grounding techniques take a lot of effort, these are techniques that aren’t that hard. These are things that you can do everyday and you will see that even if you are busy, you can stay strong.

Understanding Grounding

Grounding is also something that people call earthing. This is when you connect to the earth, and you pick up the energy around you.

Science says that grounding and allowing your skin to touch the earth can help to make you strong. Sometimes you can go out and be barefoot in the soil and this can make you to feel full of energy and to feel recharged.

When you are grounding your energy, you are able to use the planet to help make you strong. People walk around on their electronics and there is electricity everywhere. Because of these energies, your body might not feel grounded or safe. Once you use the planet to help you, you can be grounded.

As a spiritual person, you might want to ground your mental energy. You can do this when you connect to the earth and the nature around you. There are different grounding techniques that you can do to get you where you want to be.

Benefits of Grounding

There are a variety of health benefits that can help you to be grounded. Here are some things that grounding can do:

  • Increase the energies you have.
  • Help you to sleep.
  • Get rid of muscle pain.
  • Decreases headaches.
  • Eliminates chronic pain.
  • Helps you to feel calm and less stressed.
  • Increases your blood flow.
  • Gets rid of inflammation.
  • Helps with hormones.
  • Balances the nervous system.
  • Helps to heal wounds.
  • Gets rid of jet-leg.

There are more benefits that aren’t listed here but the ones above can make your life even better.

How to Ground Yourself as an Empath

Once you understand how important grounding is, you can do things to make this happen for you. Grounding in nature is one of the most important forms of grounding and you can do this outside. This will help you to feel better and help you to have peace and calmness.

Go Barefoot

The first thing to do is to go outside and be barefoot. Take your shoes off and walk in the grass, the soil or even on the beach. You can do this and you will get the energy from the earth to your body.

Bathing in the Forest

Forest bathing is a way that you take time to listen to all of the sounds, smelling the smells of the forest and becoming one with it. You are able to go into the woods and go for a walk, take time to sit and meditate by a tree. Pay attention to the animals and the plants and trees around you.

Lay in the Grass

Laying in the grass can be so relaxing. Many of us did this even as children. This is one of the best grounding techniques around. Go outside when the sun is shining and lay in the grass. Be calm and collected.

Garden

If you have a garden, going out and working in your garden can keep you grounded. This can help you to feel better and help you to pull the energies around you to yourself. Your garden will look great, and you will feel better.

Hug a Tree

You can even go out and hug a tree. Touch it with your hands and sit by it. Hug it and show it that you have love for it. Just allow your bare hands to touch the tree.

You can even visualize doing these things if you don’t have any way to go out and do them. This can also help to ground you if you need to do it that way.

Grounding with Water

Water is a great way to be grounded. You can use water for earthing. Here are some things you can do to ground with water:

Go in the Rain

The rain is one of the purest kinds of water. It is filtered by nature and it is very grounding. It doesn’t have toxins and all that in it. You can collect this water and use it to wash your body or you can just stay out in the rain.

Washing Hands

Washing your hands can be very cleansing. It can wash away any negative energies that you have. If you want to get rid of unwanted or negative energy, wash your hands. Even simply doing this can get rid of negativity and you can imagine them going down the drain.

Showing

Just like washing your hands, washing your body can ground you. The shower will get rid of negative energy. No matter what kind of dirt you have on your body or in your emotions, let the shower fix that.

Swimming

One of the best ways to use grounding with water is to swim. Go out in the pool or in the lake or ocean. Let the water surround you. See how you feel refreshed and alive when you are swimming.

Let Your Feet Swim

You can allow your feet to go into the water if you don’t like to submerge yourself. Just sit by the bath with your feet in the water, or by the pool. You can even get your own bucket and put your feet int.

Bathing

Bathing is one way to get rid of negative energy. You can make this even stronger by adding salts like Epsom salt. Relax and listen to music while you wash away your negative energies.

Mind and Body Grounding

There are ways that you can ground your mind and body and here is how:

Method of Numbers

The method of 5-4-3-2-1 is a grounding method that allows you to feel better. This means you take five things that you see, four things you feel, three things you hear, two things you smell and one thing that you taste, and you do those things.

This can help to get rid of stress and anxiety and will calm your nervous system. This can make you have positive energies.

Being Positive

Another way that you can ground yourself is by allowing your body to focus and to be more aware. Redirect your negative thoughts and think of ways to embrace your body.

Mental Thoughts

If you are overwhelmed, you can change your energies. You can spell your name backward or count to 100. You can even sing a song about counting or do whatever it takes to get your mind off of your stress.

Journal

Journal whatever you are thinking and feeling and see that you can get rid of negativity. This is a way that you can embrace your thoughts and bring peace to your life. This is great to do if you are an empath or if you are overly sensitive. Here are some things you can journal about:

  • Why am I worried? What can I do to get over this worry?
  • What energies do I need to let go of?
  • What energies do I have around me that are someone else’s?

Meditation

Meditation is healthy for everyone, and it can bring calmness to your mind and body. You can start with guided meditation, or you can do your own. There is no right or wrong way to do this meditation and you need to do whichever you feel is the best for you.

Breathing

Try breathing exercises and focus on your breathing and nothing else. When you are stressed, breathing deeply can calm you and help you to focus on good things. This can help you to ground yourself.

Try to breathe in for a count of 4 and then hold it for a count of 5 and then let it out for a count of 4. Do this over and over until you feel better.

Yoga

Yoga is considered a sport and it can be something that can ground you and be healthy for your body. You will feel more fit and you will feel that you are stronger and healthier in your mind, body and soul.

If you don’t want to go to a yoga class, you can do this on your own. Look online and find different yoga classes that you can do right from your home.

Grounding and the Environment

Grounding can work with nature and with other things, here are some things you can do that will make you feel better no matter where you are:

Play with Your Pet

Take time to hug and play with your pet. This can ground you. Animals are there to support you and hugging them can change your life.

Crystals

Use crystals as a way of grounding. This can increase your energy and make you feel calm. Try tourmaline, jade or pyrite to start.

Eating

Eat foods that are healthy and try to eat some root vegetables. This will help to keep you healthy and to keep you grounded. Trying carrots or potatoes are a great start!

Essential Oils

Essential oils such as Lavender or Cedarwood can help you to feel calm. They can ground you and work for many other purposes as well.

You can put these oils in your diffuser or you can put them in your room. Make sure that you aren’t allergic to them.

Candles

Sometimes lighting a candle can keep you grounded. It can help you to relax and feel better. You might love to watch the flame dance and this will keep you focused and calm.

Grounding Mat

There are things called a grounding mat that helps you to connect with the ground. If you live in an apartment or you don’t have a yard, this mat will help you to have a mat of the yard right by you.

A grounding mat can be plugged in and you can put your skin on it. This can help you to feel grounded and strong.

How Grounding Helps

You can enjoy your life better when you are grounded. If you try any of the techniques above, you will see that they can help you. If you are a sensitive person or an empath, grounding is an essential for you. Try and see what works best for you and stay healthy and grounded.

Letting Your Spirit Guides Help You

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Spirit Guides

Each person has at least one spirit guide and many people wonder about their spirit guides. Your spirit guide is someone that has crossed over to the other side and they are there to help you to reach your higher self. You can see these spirit guides are part of your life but one thing to remember is that your spirit guides cannot help stop bad things from happening to you.

Even if you have a spirit guide, their role on the earth is there to help you but they are not able to control things. Even in your life, you have free will and your spirit guides can only warn you and give you signs.

Warnings of Danger

A spirit guide is able to give you information and to warn you of danger. Even though they have control over things that other people don’t, there are some things that they can and cannot do. One thing that a spirit guide can do is to warn you of danger. This means that when something is coming at you that could hurt you, your guides can help you to know the signs.

Understanding Spirit Guides

Spirit guides will work the same way that your intuition works. They will do what they can to get you to listen and to warn you of things that are going on. When you are tuned into your own intuition, chances are that you are able to listen to your guides more than others who aren’t.

You will meet new guides sometimes and when you do, they will try their best to warn you that something isn’t right. If you choose to ignore it, the bad things can happen to you and the warning will just be ignored.

Can Your spirit Guide Hurt You?

No spirit guide would ever try to harm you. A guide is there to protect you and to guide you and they would never do anything negative to you. Sometimes when your guides are ready to reach you, they will send something like your spirit animal to you to give you a sign.

You might even have dreams of your spirit guide and the guidance that they want to show you. They will help you to see when important things are going on in your life.

Spirit Guide Journal

When you want to remember the messages that your spirit guides are giving you, you can try keeping a journal. This journal can be used so that you can remember the good, the bad and even the signs that your guides show you. This can help you to see if there are any repetitive patterns or ideas.

Your spirit guides are there to help you and to guide you and they will help you to know when you need to be careful of danger. They are also there to just give you encouragement and to make you feel that your life is full of love and hope.

Embrace your spirit guides and let them know that you are interested in what they have to show you and to tell you.